Sun Haven is a multiplayer farming sim and fantasy RPG. And no good sim is without its share of great romance. In Sun Haven you are helping your town to restore it to its former glory. You can do it in any of all of the ways, as a farmer, fisherman, warrior or mage. Raise animals and crops together and of course, have someone next to you to go through it all.
Sun Haven‘s romantic system works similarly to that of Stardew Valley and Story of Seasons. You’ll need to become friends with your potential paramour first before you can start a romantic relationship. There are 16 romanceable characters in Sun Haven with plenty of dynamic conversation. Unlike other games, it’s not just gift-giving that’s important but the conversation itself plays a big role. Eventually, you’ll be able to date (even multiple suitors) and then even marry them.
In this guide, we’ll show you all 7 of the romanceable female characters. Do note that Sun Haven is currently in early access and things are bound to change. We’ll do our best to keep you updated!
If you want to read about the male romance characters, tab this link open too!
Note: This article has been updated since Sun Haven’s official game release. The article’s original publication was on August 9th 2022.
Relationship Stages In Sun Haven
There are five relationship stages that you can achieve with your romance candidates that begin with friendship and that can eventually end in marriage. In order to progress that way you’ll need to engage your intended beloved in conversation and gifting. Do this every day and watch that relationship build.
These are the relationship stages that you’ll encounter in Sun Haven and what they mean for your character.

Friendship
This is the default state that you’ll begin with all characters. There are no perks and no special options at this stage. In order to open it up you will need to progress the relationship level to the next relationship stage – dating.
Dating
Once the player has progressed through the friendship stage enough your intended will ask if you would like to go on a date. If you accept you’ll unlock a special mission that you can follow through with.
The date itself is a sequence of dialogue similar to the dialogue checks prompted by interacting with romance candidates. You’ll be able to go on two unique dates with either bachelor or bachelorette you decide. And after the second date, they will ask you to go start dating officially. This will unlock new dialogue cycles.
Note: There is currently no limit to the number of characters the player can date at once

Engaged
Once you’ve reached 15 hearts with a romance candidate, you’ll unlock the option to propose to them. If you’d like to take your relationship to the next stage, head over to Town Hall and buy the Engagement Ring. If they accept your proposal your wedding will happen the following day at 4 pm.
Make this decision wisely because you won’t be able to marry anyone else after this!
Wedding
The next day you’ll attend the ceremony where you’ll have one last option to back out of the marriage by selecting “I do not”. If however, you select “I do” then you and your partner will be married and exchange wedding rings.
This unlocks the Enchanted Wedding Ring: +30 HP, +30MP, +20%EXP

Married
Once you’re married the relationship level cap with your spouse is raised from 15 hearts to 20. This adds a significant amount of new dialogue.
The primary perk of being married is that you’ll be able to enter their house at any time and sleep in their bed as well.
Anne
The savvy, extravagant owner of Sun Haven’s Traveling Exotics Shop. This workaholic lives her life on a cycle of buying and selling. While not the most humanitarian person, she is reliable… for a price!
Species | Human |
Birthday | Winter 21 |
Occupation | General Store Owner |
Location | Sun Haven Anne’s House 8 AM – 8 PM |
Gifts
Love | Items: Diamond, Small Money Bag Food: Cheesecake, Persian Love Cake, Wine Crop: Shimmeroot |
Like | Items: Amethyst, Gold Bar, Gold Ore, Ruby, Sapphire Food: Black Forest Cake, Eclair, Red Velvet Cake, Red Velvet Cupcake Crop: Raspberries, Wheat |
Dislike | Items: Anne’s Record, Anne’s Wedding Ring, Anne’s Pearl Earrings, Coal, Stone Fish: Catfish |

Anne’s Daily Schedule
Anne has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. Anne’s House is available to the player 8AM – 8PM.
Time | Location |
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6:00 AM | Leaves home. |
6:30 AM | Standing at the Quest Board in front of Town Hall. |
7:00 AM | Standing near the market stalls to the left of Town Hall. |
10:00 AM | Walks south to the General Store. |
10:30 AM | In the General Store. |
2:30 PM | Leaves the General Store and walks toward the Clothing Store in the town centre. |
3:00 PM | Standing outside of the Clothing Store in the town centre. |
5:30 PM | Walks to the Tavern. |
6:00 PM | In the Tavern. |
9:00 PM | Walks home. |
9:30 PM | Enters home for the night. |
Catherine

Catherine is Sun Haven’s resident Amari witch. She owns the Farming Store as well as makes a number of potions and prescriptions for the town, to the point that Wornhardt trusts her enough to fill medicine orders.
Species | Amari (Rabbit) |
Birthday | Summer 25 |
Occupation | Farming Store Owner / Town Witch |
Location | Sun Haven Catherine’s House 8 AM – 8 PM |
Gifts
Love | Items: Glorite Watering Can, Sunite Watering Can Food: Berry Pie, Blueberry Salad, Carrot Cake, Carrot Juice, Mushroom Pie Crop: Blue Moon Fruit, Lavender, Pumpkin, Shimmeroot |
Like | Items: Adamant Watering Can, Cooking Pot, Copper Watering Can, Earth Crystal, Iron Watering Can, Mithril Watering Can, Small Mana Tome Food: Caribbean Green Soup, Flan, Red Veggie Soup Crop: Beet, Candy Cane, Carrot Fish: Tadpole |
Dislike | Items: Catherine Record, Catherine’s Wedding Ring, Catherine’s Charm Food: Chicken Noodle Soup, Creamy Beef Stew, Meat, Steak Fish: Crab |
Catherine’s Daily Schedule
Catherine has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. Catherine’s House is available to the player from 8AM – 8PM.
Time | Location |
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6:00 AM | At home. |
10:30 AM | Leaves home to sit on a bench in front of her home. |
1:00 PM | Walks north to the Farming Store. |
1:30 PM | In the Farming Store in the town centre. |
6:00 PM | Walks toward the picnic table to the left of the Market Stalls. Left of Town Hall. |
6:30 PM | Standing next to a picnic table to the left of the Market Stalls. Left of Town Hall. |
8:00 PM | Walks through the Market area toward her home. |
8:30 PM | Enters home for the night. |
Iris

Iris is an Elven enchanter in Nel’Vari. Nature is central to her work, experimenting and discovering things about how nature and magic interact. Proudly independent, she values making choices of her own.
Species | Elf |
Birthday | Summer 22 |
Occupation | Enchanter |
Location | Nel’Vari Iris’ House 6 AM – 12 AM |
Gifts
Love | Items: Pricklepop Pear, Prickletot Pear, Small Mana Tome Food: Bitter Beer, Blueberry Smoothie, Grape Juice, Spicy Ramen Crop: Lotus |
Like | Items: Amethyst, Diamond, Oak Tree Seeds, Ruby, Sapphire Crop: Honeysuckle, Lily |
Dislike | Items: Iris Record, Iris Wedding Ring, Iris’s Enchanted Totem, Swords, Crossbows |

Iris’ Daily Schedule
Iris has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. Iris’s House is available to the player all day (6AM – 12AM).
Time | Location |
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7:00 AM | At home |
9:00 AM | Standing at the Griffin pen |
12:30 PM | Standing at the Quest Board |
2:00 PM | Standing at the Mana Lamp northeast of Quest Board, next to the entrance to Vaan’s house |
6:00 PM | Walks northeast toward the band and bonfire |
7:00 PM | Standing at the Bonfire with the Mushroom band |
8:00 PM | Walks home |
8:30 PM | Enter home for the night. |
Kitty
Kitty is a bubbly Amari villager who resides in her home east of the Bakery. She is the owner of both Sun Haven’s Pet Store and Animal Shop. She also has her own pen of farm animals just outside her house.
Species | Amari (Cat) |
Birthday | Winter 23 |
Occupation | Pet Shop Owner |
Location | Sun Haven Kitty’s House 8 AM – 10 PM |
Gifts
Love | Food: Fish Taco, Fish Tempura, Fish and Chips, Spring Roll, Any Sushi, Any Sashimi |
Like | Items: Amethyst, Animal Food, Diamond, Ruby, Sapphire, XBK One Chance, Romance Record Food: Cinnamon Apple Pie, Mochi, Mochi Covered Strawberry Crop: Wheat, Wool Fish: Sandstone Fish |
Dislike | Items: Adamant Ore, Coal, Copper Ore, Gold Ore, Iron Ore, Kitty Record, Kitty Wedding Ring, Kitty’s Cat Toy, Mithril Ore, Pet Leash, Sand, Sunite Ore Food: Glass of Pure Water Fish: Dorado, Seaweed |

Kitty’s Daily Schedule
Kitty has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. Kitty’s House is available to the player 8AM – 10PM.
Time | Location |
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7:00 AM | At home; in her room and kitchen |
10:30 AM | By the cow pen in her front yard. |
12:00 PM | Left of the chicken pen in her front yard. |
2:00 PM | Hides next to a tree to the right of the road sign. Located at the crossroads north of her house. |
2:30 PM | Walks to the pond in front of Jun’s house. |
3:00 PM | By the pond in front of Jun’s house. |
5:30 PM | Hides next to a tree at the bottom of the cliff leading up to Jun’s house. |
6:00 PM | Walks to the Inn on the East side of Sun Haven. |
7:00 PM | Outside of the Inn, looking at the horses. |
8:00 PM | Walks back home via the town centre. |
9:00 PM | Enters home for the night. |
Lucia
Lucia is the figurehead and guiding light of Sun Haven. Blessed with magic by the Sun Dragon at a young age, this fiery Archmage runs Sun Haven as its de facto leader.
Species | Human |
Birthday | Summer 20 |
Occupation | Archmage, Leader of Sun Haven |
Location | Sun Haven Lucia’s House 8 AM – 10 PM |
Gifts
Love | Items: Fire Crystal, Large Mana Tome, Small Mana Tome, Sunite Ore Food: Appetizing Ale, Buttery Beer, Tikka Masala |
Like | Food: Energy Smoothie, Hot Sauce, Spicy Catsup, Spicy Ramen, Spicy Shrimp Ramen, Strawberry Juice, Sweet and Spicy Shrimp Crop: Greenspice, Heat Fruit, Pepper Fish: Blazeel, Flame Ray, Hearth Angler, Inferno Guppy, Magma Star, Molten Slug, Pyrelus, Scorching Squid, Searback |
Dislike | Items: Earth Crystal, Lucia Record, Lucia Wedding Ring, Lucia’s Fire Orb, Water Crystal Food: Blizzard Berry Stew, Brr-Nana Smoothie, Candy Cane Ale Crop: Blizzard Berry, Brr-Nana, Candy Cane, Snow Ball, Snow Pea |

Lucia’s Daily Schedule
Lucia has two schedules that she alternates between each sunny day and one that she uses during rainy days. A rainy day will replace any subsequent sunny day schedule. Lucia’s House is available to the player from 8AM – 10PM.
Time | Sunny Day #1 | Sunny Day #2 | Rainy Day |
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7:00 AM | At home | At home | At home |
8:00 AM | Walks toward Town Hall. | Walks toward Town Hall. | |
9:00 AM | At her desk in Town Hall. | Market Stands | At her desk in Town Hall. |
11:00 AM | In Library | ||
3:00 PM | By the Market Stands. | Outside Barracks with Roza | |
5:00 PM | Walks to Jun’s House | ||
6:00 PM | In front of the Dragon Fountain. | At the pond with Jun | In front of the Dragon Fountain. |
6:30 PM | Walks west toward home. | ||
7:00 PM | In her front yard. | Walks west toward home. | |
7:30 PM | In her front yard. | ||
8:00 PM | Walks home | ||
8:30 PM | Enters home for the night. | ||
9:00 PM | Enters home for the night. | ||
10:00 PM | Enters home for the night. |
Lynn

Lynn is an apprentice blacksmith and is still learning to trust herself and her smithing skills. She is the first character you’ll meet on the train, as she is also moving to Sun Haven.
Species | Human |
Birthday | Spring 10 |
Occupation | Apprentice Blacksmith |
Location | Sun Haven Lynn’s House 8 AM – 8 PM |
Gifts
Love | Items: Glorite Bar, Sunite Bar Food: Buttery Beer, Creamy Beef Stew, Creamy Mushroom Soup, Egg Hash, Hot Chocolate, Pot Pie, Stuffed Casserole |
Like | Items: Adamant Bar, Copper Bar, Iron Bar, Mithril Bar Food: Appetizing Ale, Apple Juice, Glass of Pure Water, Milk, Pickled Veggie Salad, Veggie Kebab |
Dislike | Items: Lynn Record, Lynn Wedding Ring, Lynn’s Shield Food: Chocolate Cake, Chocolate Cupcake, Sugar Cake |
Lynn’s Daily Schedule
Lynn has one schedule that she follows rain or shine.
Time | Location |
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7:00 AM | Leaves her home and walks toward the Quarry Shop |
7:30 AM | Stands outside of the Quarry Shop |
8:00 AM | In the Quarry Shop |
2:00 PM | Leaves the Quarry Shop and stands to the right of the mine entrance |
4:00 PM | Walks from the Quarry through the town center to the river next to the market stands |
5:00 PM | Stands next to the river near to the east of the market stands |
7:00 PM | Walks home |
8:00 PM | Enters home for the night. |
Xyla

Xyla sits on the Demon King’s royal council and is Withergate’s Demon architect, having built the city from the ground up. The Demon King took her in after Darius found her living in a cave out in the wild.
Species | Demon |
Birthday | Fall 11 |
Occupation | Architect, Royal Council |
Location | Withergate Xyla’s House 6 AM – 12 AM |
Gifts
Love | Items: Crown, Heavy Crossbow Food: Red Velvet Cake, Withercake Crop: Snappy Plant Fish: Globfish, Purrmaid |
Like | Items: Chess Board, Refined Concrete, Refined Glass, Refined Plastic Food: Red Velvet Cupcake |
Dislike | Items: Amethyst, Bone Gift, Diamond, Gold Bar, Gold Ore, Old Boot, Rel’Tar’s Mark (Crossbow), Ruby, Sapphire, Xyla Record, Xyla Wedding Ring, Xyla’s Queen Chess Piece |
Xyla’s Daily Schedule
Xyla has one schedule that she follows rain or shine. You can enter Xyla’s House with a relationship of 5 hearts between the hours of 8AM – 8PM.
Time | Location |
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7:00 AM | At home in the Apartment Complex. |
8:00 AM | Leaves the Apartment Complex. |
8:30 AM | Stands on the path south of the Apartment Complex. |
11:00 AM | Walks to the Carnival Area; currently unavailable. |
7:00 PM | Leaves the Carnival Area and enters the Apartment Complex. |
8:00 PM | Standing outside of her Apartment. |
11:00 PM | Enters her home for the night. |
Vivi
Vivi is a determined Amari, hunting the large bounty placed on your head by an unknown figure. With such a juicy bounty over your head, she’s got just the right dagger with your name on it. The only problem now is remembering to tie her boots before your special “date”…
Species | Amari (Squirrel) |
Birthday | Fall 23 |
Occupation | Asassin |
Location | Sun Haven Vivi’s House |
Gifts
Love | Items: Barrel Of Swords, Carrot Sword, Glorite Sword, Health Woven Scarf, Rel’Tar’s Mark (Crossbow), Sunite Sword Food: Acorn Milk, Berry Pie, Cinnamon Apple Pie, Raspberry Pie, Seared Acorn Anchovy Fish: Acorn Anchovy |
Like | Items: Adamant Sword, Advanced Attack Potion, Attack Potion, Copper Sword, Crossbow, Egg Crossbow, Elven Crossbow, Gold Bar, Gold Ore, Heavy Crossbow, Incredible Attack Potion, Iron Swoth, Mithril Crossbow, Mithril Sword, Small Money Bag Food: Creamy Mushroom Soup, Fruit Snacks, Mushroom Pie, Mushroom Risotto, Mushroom Stroganoff Crop: Berry, Mushroom |
Dislike | Items: Training Dummy, Vivi Wedding Ring, Vivi’s Bone Dagger Food: Bitter Beer, Buttery Beer, Coffee, Demon Coffee, Eggplant Cola, Grape Soda Pop, Kraken Cola, Moonplant Cola, Pumpkin Soda, Spikey Soda, Sucker Soda, Sweet Melon Soda, Tombmelon Soda Crop: Pepper |
Vivi’s Daily Schedule
Vivi has two schedules depending on if they are married to the player or not.
Time | Normal Day | Married |
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6:00 AM | Inside her house | Inside your house |
8:00 AM | Goes outside | Goes outside |
10:30 AM | Goes to merchants | Goes to merchants |
1:00 PM | Goes to the General Store | Goes to the General Store |
3:00 PM | At Sun Haven Quest Board | At Sun Haven Quest Board |
4:30 PM | Walks to merchants | Walks to merchants |
6:00 PM | Behind Tavern | Goes behind the tavern |
9:30 PM | Walks back to her house | Walks back to your house |
Sun Haven
You’ve just arrived in Sun Haven, a medieval town full of people from all walks of life doing their best to make their beloved town thrive as it once did. As a farmer, miner, fisher, warrior, craftsman, and even a mage, you’ll find that adventure awaits you here. Sun Haven is currently out on Early Access on Steam for PC.
Sun Haven Guides
- Sun Haven – Female Romance Guide
- Sun Haven – Male Romance Guide
- Sun Haven – Best Crops To Plant
- Sun Haven – The Complete Fishing Guide
- Sun Haven – Dynus’ Altar Offering Guide
- Sun Haven – The Complete Mining Guide
- Sun Haven – Which Race To Choose
- Sun Haven – Best Swords and Crossbows
- Sun Haven – Best Armor Sets In The Game
- Sun Haven – Cooking and Recipe Guide